Friday 25 August 2017

Heaven on Earth

Heiii... Let me ask you one question :) What is your favorite place in the world?

Definitely the answer will be your HOME :) And its reason will be your FAMILY.

What ever be your current state of mind, there is something special that make you more pleasure. Its your FAMILY. Let us define FAMILY as "Father And Mother I Love You". The FAMILY is the most precious gift directly from the hands of God. It is where you belong. It is the garden where you live and enjoy life. It is the garden where you born and brought up! It is the garden where get into and own!The value of the FAMILY is all about life style. What ever it is traditional or modern, value is given to a FAMILY based on, the beauty of the hearts live in.

FAMILY is something gifted by birth and by life. The place where you live with your sibling, parents, grand parents is the FAMILY by birth. The place where you live with your children, spouse, parents in law ,children in law, grand parents in law is the FAMILY by life. Both are equally important and tightly coupled. Learn to love your second family in the same way you love the family where you born. Teach your daughter/wife/sister to be. Teach your son/husband/brother to be. There is some related institution that strengthen  the bond already in : relatives and friends. All together is the BIG FAMILY ; that makes us what we are!

My ultimate dream in  life is to have a pleasant and happy FAMILY. Everything else is secondary for me.


Grand parents are the most experienced people. So they will be abundant source of real time knowledge and best companion for children. Children are the most innocent part in the FAMILY. So they will be the abundant source of happiness. We should be capable to co-ordinate everybody, be ready to help everybody, be the role of energy source in all possible ways.


1.Learn to give priority in the same manner.
2.Love everybody unconditionally.
3.Make them join in your happiness and provide their own privacy.
4.Understand their wishes, and try to fulfill it.
5.Respect them and value their advises.
6.Understand their needs and do it for them.
7.When they get angry, understand the situation and help to solve.
8.Point out their mistakes in front of them.
9.Advice them for their sake.
10.Never tell others fault to somebody else.
11.Make up the unity of single heart.
12.Never bring up misunderstanding, clear out in the same time.
13.Talk, eat and laugh together.
14.Share and gain mutually.
15.Encourage each other .
16.Never expect more but give as much as you can.
17.Never create a feeling of group ism.
18.Understand others likes and dislikes, and behave appropriately.

Try all these tips, then you can see a perfect FAMILY.

Learn to understand.Your parent is parent of your sibling.Your husband/wife is somebody else's child.
Your Child is some body else's niece/nephew/grand child.Your sibling is somebody else's parent/ child/spouse.So value their relationship as well and encourage it and contribute its health.

Health, Wealth and Status... all are bi-products of FAMILY. Let us  develop a model of great life style with values. Educate children academically as well as behaviorally. Let us make and belong a right FAMILY. Let us contribute a perfect citizen.

Life is all about what you do. Average age of a human being  is 60 - 70 years. Each second is countable. Let us leave the past life. Let us contribute a perfect future.Be a model for society.

Here, I am signing off with a pledge that "I will do my best for my family and society". Bye bye till we meet again :)

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